LIKE FATHER (2018)
Reviewed by Jerry Saravia
At the start of the newest Netflix comedy-drama, "Like Father," there is a big wedding where Kristin Bell is Rachel Hamilton, the bride whose heart really belongs to her cell phone. She is not married to it, but she is married to her job as a New York ad exec. We also get overhead shots of the city (something I really cannot stand to see in movies anymore). She is dumped at the altar because her bouquet falls and out slips her cell phone, which is almost always superglued to her hand. The groom can't stand it and walks out in the middle of the ceremony. Once these scenes are played out which, to my recollection, I have seen more often in similar movies than I can count, I almost tuned out. But a sneaky resonant joy erupts in "Like Father," the joy of watching two solid character portrayals played by two distinctive actors, Kristen Bell and Kelsey Grammer, who are largely underrated talents in movies. This one worked me over.After Rachel is left to ponder her nonexistent marriage, she decides to take the honeymoon cruise. The problem is her dad (Kelsey Grammer) is in the Big Apple for her wedding though he hasn't seen her since she was little. Clearly, there is much ill will from Rachel and, after a night of reluctantly drinking with him, they go on to this cruise. Nope, do not let your mind go there, nothing incestual of any nature here except a dad trying to reconnect with his daughter.
It is awkward at first as people on board the cruise think they are a married couple! After a few karaoke interludes, Rachel fooling around with a male passenger (Seth Rogen, whose character is not a stoner!), a foray into the waterfalls of the Caribbean and some pot smoking, the truth comes out. It is one of two remarkable scenes between Bell and Grammer, the first about why he left the family and the other is a confession on why he came out to see Rachel. Both scenes are honestly depicted without a false note, showcasing the watchable Kelsey Grammer as an older man who has nothing left in his life except Rachel. Bell's Rachel has had two people ditch her in her life yet eventually understands that obsessive workloads are secondary to family unity. Sure, these same sad notes of torn families and father-daughter discord are nothing new yet both actors bring such sincerity and focused sensitivity to it that you can't help but cling to them.
"Like Father" is a nuanced emotional experience, with Grammer never overplaying his hand and Kristen Bell showing the true colors of an extraordinary actress (watch episodes of TV's "The Good Place" for further proof), particularly one moment where she slowly sobs after listening to her dad's reasons for abandoning the family. Every time she is on screen, she sparkles and there is never a wasted moment. Visually, the movie has the splendor of the colorful Caribbean and the enormity of the cruise itself, which looks like it is more than fifty stories high. But it is finely detailed moments, such as Bell walking in the streets of New York as a big bubble passes and bursts behind her or the darkly cavernous look of the New York bar, where we also get insights into her transfixed mood - there is texture there but you have to look closer. Writer-director Laura Miller Rogen (no free Carribean cruises to those who can't guess who she is married to) infuses this oft-told tale with simplicity and warmth, aided enormously by Bell and Grammer. I'd like to see these two actors together again - they are a breath of sunshine.







