WON'T YOU BE MY NEIGHBOR? (2018)
Reviewed by Jerry Saravia
What I remember most about Mr. Rogers was his shoes. That is right, the cardigan-sweater-wearing, non-judgmental host, America's Mr. Nice Guy, was memorable to me because of his shoes. He would sing the famous song, "Won't You Be My Neighbor?," after arriving at his house in the neighborhood and would eventually take off his shoes and change into a pair of blue sneakers. He would also ruminate about them and you could tell that his comfort was your comfort. That is the central notion of Morgan Neville's documentary, "Won't You Be My Neighbor?," an emotional tour de force that will mean a lot to those who watched "Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood" on PBS back in the day. Even if you didn't watch it, you can't help but feel emotionally connected to a man who connected to childrens' feelings in ways that are hard to describe.
"You've made this day a special day, by just your being you. There's no person in the whole world like you; and I like you just the way you are" - Mister Rogers
This was the quote that would end every show of Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood. Such a closing line was indicative of someone full of humanity and forthright wisdom, wanting to share and listen to all who were willing to do the same. That such a noble, perfectly human conceit is not always shared still mystifies me but that is the nature of our world. What is most revealing about Mr. Rogers is that, on one rare occasion, he could not always share or listen to those who were shunned. That gave me a cold, hard slap on my face but you have to consider the times as well. For example, Francoise Clemmons, a trained opera singer who played Officer Clemmons on the show, was actually a closeted gay man yet in the turbulent year of 1969 he could not come out as gay, nor could he frequent gay clubs per Mr. Rogers insistence. It would've proven to be scandalous for the show, and Mr. Rogers was already sharing a foot bath with Clemmons during a time of desegregation.
That is about as much controversy as you will get from "Won't You Be My Neighbor?" The documentary shows good-natured Mr. Fred Rogers as a great humanitarian who had children of his own and was happily married. It is abundantly clear that he loved children and always felt they had to be protected and listened to. Rogers' would try puppetry to gain insights into kids, even using such voices at home to talk to his own offspring who may invariably be upset about something. My favorite of the puppets has always been Daniel, the Striped Tiger, who listens very intently and often said afterwards, "I like him." The most memorable puppet for me personally was King Friday XIII, the monarch of the neighborhood who had a temper (though considerably less temperamental than say Sesame Streets' own Oscar the Grouch).
When it came to tragedies such as the unfortunate assassinations of political leaders of the late 60's, notably RFK's assassination, Mr. Rogers felt compelled to talk to children about tragedy and sadness (he had a tougher time explaining 9/11). He wanted his sensibilities to be shared among other adults, especially parents whom he felt should be able to talk to their kids about difficult topics.
"Won't You Be My Neighbor?" is a remarkable portrait of a kind, remarkable man who felt anyone could be his neighbor. There was no separation between the television personality and the man offscreen - they were one and the same. Though I would've loved more insight into Mr. Rogers' own family, it is the families he connected with on television (a medium that cheapened virtues, in his mind) that is at the heart of the film and the man. You can't help but like him the way he was.






