The opening sequence shows a series of freeze-frames of four male buddies who bond by flexing their muscles - they all stand in macho-istic unison. One of these guys dies of a coronary, and the three other men (John Cassavetes, Ben Gazzara and Peter Falk) deal with the trauma after attending the funeral. Archie (Falk) questions why the pastor did not mention their deceased friend's sense of humor. He also reminds Gus (Cassavetes), a dentist, that telling lies will kill you sooner than any heart disease or cancer. A mostly serious-minded Harry (Ben Gazzara) lets loose when they all drink at a bar and each one in attendance sings a song. One older woman is dismissed and bullied for not singing her song with any "real heart." She keeps trying, and failing. That is the story of these husbands in a nutshell - they try and fail to reconnect to their emotions, to their heart. Excessive drinking and smoking does them no favors. Harry arrives at an instinctual need to take off for London, and hoping his buddies will come with him.
Harry's home life is the only one we are privy to as he arrives home, in an earlier dramatic scene, to a loveless wife who attacks him with a knife! Harry's mother-in-law is attacked by Harry in scenes that are as raw and dispiritingly honest as anything Cassavetes has ever filmed. Going to London is probably the better option than to be sent to jail.
When the trio arrive in London and gamble and find a woman for themselves, "Husbands" falls off the meter for me. The endless gambling scenes just show the guys in medium shots with no shots of the table as they enthusiastically play craps and keep winning, until there is a loss. Same with the women they pick up - enthusiasm gives way to indifference. Hard to tell if Harry is having any real fun - the man is lost in his middle-aged, awkward fits of rage and finds comfort with an English woman who gives him back massages. Archie is the most curious soul, in bed with an Asian woman who doesn't speak a hint of English but knows how to say "Coca-Cola." They kiss and she gets into it until she gives him the tongue and Archie disapproves. Gus's fling with a statuesque blonde runs into hot-and-cold territory and, by the next morning, it is hard to say if they had sex. Gus makes a non-joke when they are at a cafe, giggling and feeling comfort with each other, claiming he doesn't like aggressive women. That is the end of that chapter.
"Husbands" is at its New York-centric freewheeling best and most animated when the guys are on their odyssey of drinking binges, playing basketball, and swimming. The film lost me a bit when they continue their binge in London and it just did not strike the same chords though it remains resolutely honest. When Gus and Archie finally decide to come home to their families and jobs and Harry decides to stay in the U.K., the loss is even greater than it was at the beginning. Family is all you have got, but friends do not last forever. Male bonding and camaraderie may have its limitations.







